Wishing

We are talking about this topic again because it is so pervasive in your thoughts and the differences so subtle that we fear the concept is hard to grasp. Wishing something into being has no energy, it is a wisp o’the wind, it is a feather floating on the universal consciousness. You wish on stars and when you blow out candles. You wish as you throw money in a well. You make a wish and send a chain letter to all your “friends” who then must do the same or be fearful of years of bad luck, BUT if they torture your friends, then this “wish” or many “wishes” will come true. We wish you could understand that wishing has no energy. It is just a thought about something or someone that you want or desire. It is not in action.  

Think of how you use the word “wish.”  “I wish I hadn’t said that.”  “I wish I were smarter.” “I wish I were prettier.” “I wish I were nicer.” Now please look at those statements, where is the energy? Most wishes could be seen as regrets. Regrets for things you do not have or did not do. Regrets are a waste of time unless you learn from them. What can you learn from regrets? You hopefully can learn that you should not do those things again. Whether it was to speak harshly to someone, or to not study when you were in school or to not take care of yourself and therefore view yourself as not pretty. So when you have a handful of wishes, you have a handful of regrets as well. Do you want to live with regrets which keep you stuck unconsciously in the past? Do you want to “wish” all your cares away? 

Think about what you wish would happen. We know you all have “wishes” so think of one or two. Now, think of the regret that motivates that wish. Now analyze the regret. What occurred that you can now counterbalance in your life. You cannot take most things you have done “back” just in case you were hoping it was so. The action is complete and therefore is done and gone and over because it is the PAST.  The future is yours to write, but you are wishing some past regret into the future. What can you do right now in this moment to begin to move actively and willingly and positively toward changing the regret? Can you apologize to the person for what you said or change how you react in the future? Can you go back to school to learn or read more books or study more educational programs to make you smarter? Can you begin to care for yourself so that your true beauty can begin to emerge not only for others, but for you? Yes, in this moment you can make a commitment to change those regrets and move into a happier, more fulfilling life. So stop wishing, stop your regrets and begin to live in the moment from a loving and full place. 

We leave you fully in love.

Namaste